<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post2987507460414666802..comments</id><updated>2009-03-27T09:01:24.319-04:00</updated><category term='remembrance week'/><category term='portraits'/><category term='LOST'/><category term='emmett turns one'/><category term='wordless wednesday'/><category term='emmett'/><category term='april fools'/><category term='greg'/><category term='nablopomo'/><category term='monthly letters'/><category term='giving thanks'/><category term='house'/><category term='cloth diaper week'/><category term='music'/><category term='guest post'/><category term='sibling grief support'/><category term='tuesday time travel'/><category term='what the joys of commuting mean to me'/><category term='zachary'/><title type='text'>Comments on not an only child: it's only a shadow of grief</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/feeds/2987507460414666802/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html'/><author><name>Amy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01240362815015354728</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-5078388636602350421</id><published>2009-03-27T09:01:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-27T09:01:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Everyone else has already said it all.  I love you...</title><content type='html'>Everyone else has already said it all.  I love you!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/5078388636602350421'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/5078388636602350421'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238158860000#c5078388636602350421' title=''/><author><name>mo*reezy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01119494674146039715</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://www.dropshots.com/photos/177495/20070723/222256.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1446771154'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-4609378342900618207</id><published>2009-03-26T17:42:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-26T17:42:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I think you described how you're feeling very well...</title><content type='html'>I think you described how you're feeling very well. I think, at least, that I have a small sense of what it must be like to be done with outright grief, and moving into a stage for which the pain is less obvious to others. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;If it helps any, I am constantly amazed by how you've dealt with your grief (a grief that I can't even imagine feeling), and I'm still amazed. In your writing, you confront so many things head on - and you make it easy for those of us who haven't experienced this type of tragedy to sense it, just a little. I really hope that it's as therapeutic for you as it is educational and eye-opening for us. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I guess my point in saying all that is, you've changed, and will continue to change, but there's nothing wrong with that. You're on a journey, and I think this Amy is wonderful, too.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I hope all that rambling made sense. You and Greg are in my thoughts. Virtual hugs to you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/4609378342900618207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/4609378342900618207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238103720000#c4609378342900618207' title=''/><author><name>Elena</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08648484965005836045</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i149.photobucket.com/albums/s57/lionswims/Me1.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1202264960'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-3018082432111510021</id><published>2009-03-26T14:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-26T14:00:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>aw, that is sad. I cant say I know what its like b...</title><content type='html'>aw, that is sad. I cant say I know what its like but it is hard to lose a family member. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;hope the sun comes out for you soon!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/3018082432111510021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/3018082432111510021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238090400000#c3018082432111510021' title=''/><author><name>Fizzgig</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12086526805778452531</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a227/fizzgigabyte/Profile/sidechar.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1039002039'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-3051928570550531207</id><published>2009-03-25T22:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-25T22:19:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I too wish I could give you a hug in person... and...</title><content type='html'>I too wish I could give you a hug in person... and Julia does too - she would have loved to meet her cousin Greg.  We are keeping you in our thoughts every day :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/3051928570550531207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/3051928570550531207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238033940000#c3051928570550531207' title=''/><author><name>Katherine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02228341052398767118</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-334620119'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-1584584586822445923</id><published>2009-03-25T22:02:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-25T22:02:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Very well said.  Ditto.</title><content type='html'>Very well said.  Ditto.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/1584584586822445923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/1584584586822445923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238032920000#c1584584586822445923' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1440645657'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-1900484243137184722</id><published>2009-03-25T20:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-25T20:19:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>"Sometimes we need space and sometimes we need to ...</title><content type='html'>"Sometimes we need space and sometimes we need to be crowded with love"&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;this is exactly how i feel in november......thanks for putting it into words.....know that my thoughts are always with you!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/1900484243137184722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/1900484243137184722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238026740000#c1900484243137184722' title=''/><author><name>Thais</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03764222907393993893</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1846635569'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-8043410170602026056</id><published>2009-03-25T19:03:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-25T19:03:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hugs from me to you! :) Wish I could give you one ...</title><content type='html'>Hugs from me to you! :) Wish I could give you one in person...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/8043410170602026056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/2987507460414666802/comments/default/8043410170602026056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html?showComment=1238022180000#c8043410170602026056' title=''/><author><name>Meredith</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18430988520191317912</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/__wT115UMYJw/R-pquNAqDdI/AAAAAAAAAgE/TcrP9k6Vx0E/S220/100_2627.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.notanonlychild.com/2009/03/its-only-shadow-of-grief.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6173210819227788101.post-2987507460414666802' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6173210819227788101/posts/default/2987507460414666802' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-586047556'/></entry></feed>
